On Sunday, the Miss USA pageant title was awarded to a 24-year-old woman who is a black belt in Tae Kwon Do.
The
title went to Miss Nevada Nia Sanchez who holds a fourth degree black
belt. In her question-and-answer segment, she expressed some ideas
about on campus rape that might make you do a little bit of a double
take.Sanchez, who wore an intricate red gown during the latter part of the three-hour nationally broadcast contest, addressed the issue of sexual assault on college campuses during a question-and-answer session faced by all six finalists. Sanchez said she felt some colleges, fearing a bad reputation, might sweep the problem under the rug, and that "More awareness (of the issue) is very important so that women can learn to protect themselves."She added that as a 4th degree black belt, she learned "you need to be confident and be able to defend yourself ... That's something we need to start to implement for a lot of women."
While
I certainly admire how hard she's worked to obtain her status as a
black belt, college women shouldn't have to "learn to protect
themselves." College men should "learn not to rape." But somehow I doubt
we're going to hear those words come out of the mouth of a national
beauty pageant contestant anytime in the near future.
Would
it hurt if we all become black belts to defend against possible violent
threats? No. But why should we have to? What about women who don't want
to spend several hours a week taking self defense classes just to
protect themselves against rapists at their schools? What about women
who have a physical disability that prohibits that? Are they not
"confident" enough to defend themselves? Also, how well do you think all
my self-defense training is going to work when I'm unwittingly drugged?
How about colleges becoming "confident" enough to discipline and expel
male student rapists?Why the hell should I have to become Bruce Lee
just because I want to get an advanced degree?
I
appreciate that she wants to discuss the issue of rape on campus
(which absolutely is being swept under rug by way too many schools). But
placing the responsibility on women to become more "confident" and
learn to protect themselves just isn't the way to do it.
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