Many parents will see it as a simple sign of parental affection, but
Dr Charlotte Reznick has warned the mouth is an erogenous zone which
“can be stimulating” and subsequently cause confusion for children.
The author of ‘The Power of Your Child’s Imagination: How to Transform Stress and Anxiety Into Joy and Success’, told The Sun that
children might associate kissing with sexual or romantic activity
between parents and then wonder why their parents were engaging in the
same activity with them too.
She says it might cause a child to think: “If mommy kisses daddy on
the mouth and vice versa, what does that mean, when I, a little girl or
boy, kiss my parents on the mouth.”
The suggestion has been derided by other child psychologists who say
there is no harm in such displays of affection. Clinical psychologist
Sally-Anne McCormack told the newspaper: “There is absolutely no way
that kissing a young child on the lips is confusing for them in any way.
“That’s like saying breastfeeding is confusing. Some people might have issues with it, but it isn’t any more sexual than giving a baby a back rub.”

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